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Aaaaah-haaaaa - tricked you!! He wasn't playing chess - he was playing draughts.
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So - sometimes our memory is not as good as we'd like it to be - and often that is because we didn't see the reality in the first place.
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In other words - we remember something that wasn't actually there. Sometimes we see what we think we should see. We said Tony was on the floor playing chess so that's what you thought you saw.
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And it was only when you looked more carefully that you realised it wasn't a chess set but draughts. You might be thinking - "so what? - as long as you don't make a mistake like that in an exam it'll be okay".
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But - for example - what if you were called as a witness because you'd seen a road accident? Your evidence - and the accuracy of your memories could mean the difference between someone getting into big trouble for dangerous driving or getting away with it.
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It's been shown in psychological experiments that witnesses memories are not as reliable as judges and juries would like them to be.
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And in your own life - have you ever been annoyed by something someone said or did? But how certain can you be that you have an accurate picture of what happened?
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What if you misread the situation?
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What if you misheard the comment?
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What if you don't know all the facts?
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What if your brain didn't store the memory correctly?
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You might be holding a grudge for no real reason at all.
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Sometimes the world seems full of fools who are quick to judge. You don't want to be one of them, do you?
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It might be a good idea to go back and check the facts before you make huge assumptions. And if you realise you've been a bit off the mark then that's a good time to work out what you're going to do to resolve the situation.
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Let's take a few moments in silence to think about times when we might have jumped the gun and made decisions based on inaccurate memories of what really occurred in our lives.
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Chances are that putting things right won't be as hard as you think it'll be - so why not give it a try? |